Not speaking for Pulumi specifically, but what you could do (and what we do with another tool) is to template each resource and define defaults wherever possible. It's a lot of work, but it ensures everyone can use it and resources are created the same way each time while still allowing experienced developers to customize a resource to their needs (within the templates)
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