hey guys!! how do I solve peding deletion without using pulumi refresh? the same urn has 10 pending deletion records, for each "pending deletion" I need to execute pulumi state delete urn... this takes too long

Typically that should not happen. I think only one deletion record should exist for each urn and everything should clear with time. The bottleneck is the cloud API resource deletion time

I understand it wasn't supposed to happen, but it's happening often. the same urn with several pending deletion records. the problem is that this prevents you from continuing with pulumi up