aws:ec2:VpcPeeringConnection (us-data-vpc-peer-to-primary-data-vpc):
    error: 1 error occurred:
        * updating urn:pulumi:dev::allrites-infrastructure::custom:resource:vpc$aws:ec2/vpcPeeringConnection:VpcPeeringConnection::us-data-vpc-peer-to-primary-data-vpc: 1 error occurred:
        * Unable to modify EC2 VPC Peering Connection Options. EC2 VPC Peering Connection (pcx-074aa1572a7fa6704) is not active (current status: pending-acceptance). Please set the `auto_accept` attribute to `true` or activate the EC2 VPC Peering Connection manually.

how do i solve this problem?