Resources:
    ~ 6 to update
    +-48 to replace
    54 changes. 356 unchanged

Do you want to perform this update? details
  pulumi:pulumi:Stack: (same)
    [urn=urn:pulumi:production::allrites-infrastructure::pulumi:pulumi:Stack::allrites-infrastructure-production]
            ~ eks:index:VpcCni: (update)
                [id=cb5e864952980aec]
                [urn=urn:pulumi:production::allrites-infrastructure::custom:resource:eks$eks:index:Cluster$eks:index:VpcCni::us-eks-eks-cluster-vpc-cni]
              + kubeconfig: output<string>
    ++pulumi:providers:kubernetes: (create-replacement)
        [id=f5843109-d992-4709-afac-e4be7342d1ea]
        [urn=urn:pulumi:production::allrites-infrastructure::pulumi:providers:kubernetes::us-eks-k8s-provider]
      - kubeconfig: {
          - apiVersion     : "v1"
          - clusters       : [
          -     [0]: {
           ...................
         }
      + kubeconfig: output<string>

this constant changes to kubeconfig is very painful

I see you have an open issue here: https://github.com/pulumi/pulumi-eks/issues/764