is there a way to kick of a k8s.batch.v1.Job only wait for lets say 2 min and then mark the job as succesfull eventhough it is still processing ? if that’s not possible, is there away to extend the time pulumi waits for just this job to complete?

You can specify a custom timeout for a resource: https://www.pulumi.com/docs/intro/concepts/resources/#customtimeouts

cool ! thanks !