I am having some strange issues with my pulumi EKS stack. Apparently, for some reason, the stack state is out of sync with the actual aws resources it provisioned (not sure exactly what happened). When I try to resync the state with "pulumi refresh", it successfully completed, but obviously the problem is still there. So, when I try "pulumi up", it detects the difference, the update failed. Not sure exactly how to fix the issue. I'm trying to destroy the entire stack to restart from scratch, the pulumi destroy failed as well. How do I get out of this situation. Any help will be greatly appreciated.