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if it makes anyone feel any better - when I select both the public ip + the appgw in the azure portal to manually delete the damned things, azure itself spews an error saying it can't delete the IP address because it's connected to the appgw (which it eventually deleted by the way).

So what would be the ideal behavior here from the Pulumi side?

FWIW, i recall solving delete order issues by specifying

opts.parent

and

opts.depends_on

explicitly