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Just realized that a few minutes after more searching. Wasn't obvious from some of the walkthroughs but maybe I missed it. Thanks

It almost seems intuitive that pulumi up would refresh the state first on its own internally

Terraform does, pulumi decided not to.
You can run `pulumi up --refresh`