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`pulumi up --help` list the following two options which sounds like what you want:
```-t, --target stringArray                    Specify a single resource URN to update. Other resources will not be updated. Multiple resources can be specified using --target urn1 --target urn2
--target-dependents                     Allows updating of dependent targets discovered but not specified in --target list```